"Destiny - The events that will necessarily happen to a particular person or thing in the future"
First question - Are you not happy with the stage in life your at present?
If not, change! To many people continue day by day surfing their way through life. I personally throughout many stages and have made references to that on other blogs in my life had got caught up doing what I deep down and honestly never wanted to be doing. However.. this feeling was temporary as my destiny was still ahead.. and it lead me onto realising what I really did want!
Today might not be the day, tomorrow could well be that day.. but change is essentially the driving force behind what direction you are going in. For the next few days, ask other people "are they happy with there job, lifestyles etc." and you might just get your eyes open. Yes you will because your not alone and certainly not at your final destination by any means..
That dream job you've gave up on because you've got nothing but the feeling of failure in job after job.. after job is in fact leading you onto the next path, the next test and the next challenge to say ask you a simple question - "How much do you want this". Not just a job it can be translated into many other environments.. Relationships, sports, mental health and whatever else you do with your life that requires you to continually ask yourself questions. What I am saying to you is this..
"YOU ARE THE CREATOR OF YOUR OWN DESTINY"
If you ever listen to older/elderly people in society, majority of them will say this. Back when I was your age I wish/I regret not doing or I should've did this when.. seems sad? yes, this could be you in years to come because you haven't took the responsibility or you haven't widened your horizons to do what you want to do with your life?
Believe this is untrue.. ask an older/elderly person and you will get this insight.
As we awake each morning we have a choice. a choice to feel happy, a choice to be motivated and a choice as to how we take on the day ahead.. not just another day on earth!!
Gareth McCauley.
